Let’s talk family photos
TIPS + THINGS TO CONSIDER
A little perspective:
This is the most “scripted” part of the day, where we’re working off a shot list to get through everything efficiently. That said, we’re still watching for those in-between moments; the hugs, glances, hand squeezes that make these photos feel alive.
So don’t forget: even though it’s structured, these are still special moments with the people who raised you, shaped you, and love you deeply. Take a second to show your grandma your ring. Give your mom a real hug and thank her. Tell your favorite aunt she’s your favorite. These moments matter for the photos, but more importantly, for your relationships, your heart, and for the memory of the day.
Bonus tip: Outdoor portraits (when possible) often feel a little more relaxed and natural. If you're getting married at a church, we typically do large group photos inside, but smaller immediate family shots can be lovely in a nearby outdoor spot with softer light and a calmer feel.
Here are a few things to consider as you customize your list:
Include variations as you see fit! For instance, You might want individual photos with each sibling, or one group photo with all siblings together. Some even like to combine siblings from both partners’ sides into one shot! Totally your call.
Consider when you'd like to include significant others, or grandparents in family groupings.
Consider if you want any combined shots- like both sets of parents with the couple, or an all-siblings photo from both sides.
Please note any family dynamics or relationships we should be aware of- divorces, step-family, sensitivities, etc. We want to be respectful and efficient, and a heads-up helps us plan accordingly.
Timing note: Each grouping takes about 3 minutes on average. Large extended family shots can take a bit longer; individual or couple groupings move quickly.
The most important thing is making sure everyone knows where and when to be present for photos. It’s very common for us to lose time waiting on someone who’s stepped away (bathroom break, grabbed a drink at cocktail hour, etc.). If someone is missing, we’ll either need to skip that photo or extend the portrait time, which can cut into your post-ceremony fun.
The list we’ve provided below is just a starting point. Feel free to personalize it, what matters most is that it reflects your priorities!
